Control Freak

If my station is tidy and my shelving is in order, then I can proceed. Circumstances have to be just right. I must be precise. I must be ready. I can’t have any distractions. Before I learned how to let go, before meditation, I had control issues. As a young man, my need for control …
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Summer Schedule for Kung Fu

Summer is in full effect and there are some changes in the weekly class schedule. As of this week, I am putting the QiBelly Kung Fu classes on hold for the summer. I am still offering the private coursework for all of my Kung Fu classes, but for now we will be a taking a …
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Happiness is Not My Goal

Embarking upon the path of personal development is no easy task. There are many inconvenient truths revealed in the processing. To be honest, this is why most stay away. Life can be hard enough as it is. Why go looking for trouble? I tell those I work with that the practice is not about ‘puppy …
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Meditation Tip of the Week

Try meditating upon the word ‘Acceptance.’ For your life. For your day. For your moment. Whatever the word means to you, use it as a way of reinforcing the here and now. As your mind wanders, and it will, just bring it back. Don’t worry about how you got off track. Just bring it back …
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Meditation Changed My Life

I used to assume that being free meant I could just do what I wanted. I could be lazy, I could just go with the flow. It was my life and I made my choices. At least I used to tell myself these things. Over the years, I have come to witness the misperceptions with …
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